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Online dating safety tips

Our ultimate goal is to make every member’s dating experience safe and enjoyable. We take your privacy and security very seriously, as, unfortunately, online dating sites are often targeted by fakes, scammers and predators. They join such sites not to date but to collect personal data and use it for unwanted, or ever criminal, activities. Money asking, otherwise known as scam, links to phishing sites and spamming are only a few examples of what these people can do. We encourage you to use our safety tips to protect yourself and feel safe dating online.

Stay Alert. It’s always a good idea to trust your instincts. They may save you from undesirable contacts and unwanted issues. If your new match is making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, it’s best to let them go for your own good. Perfection is what many of us crave, but don’t be gullible and stay alert if what you see is too good to be true. When in doubt, never leave the dating site, double-check their profile information and pictures, and be on the lookout for any inconsistencies or oddities in their behavior. Chances are your perfect “prince” or “princess” is an impostor.

"Don’t Overshare. We advise you not to give out your personal details, such as your full name, home address, phone number, etc., if you’re not sure who you’re talking to. For instance, your home phone number is the key to your home address, income data and even your home value. Our site uses an anonymous email and chat system so that other members cannot see any of your personal information online. We ask you to use our on-site email system for sending and receiving emails. When you’re sure you can trust a person, now’s the time to build a trustful relationship between you.

Double-check! People looking for some adult fun are at a high risk of being scammed. A person who befriends you may send you unlawful advertisements, redirect you to a phishing site or simply ask for money or your credit card details. Stay alert if a person with one country in their profile tells you they are from a different country. Female scammers commonly describe themselves as “god-fearing”, “genuine”, “sincere”, “loving” and “honest”. If you believe you’ve been contacted by a scammer who behaves suspiciously and looks too perfect to be true, do not reply and report them to us immediately using the scammer report option. But first make sure you know how to preserve the copies of your online conversations. "

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How to date successfully

In fact, it’s very easy! Always be yourself, like the members who caught your attention, send text messages and Flirtcasts, be active in chat rooms and meet like-minded people. Profiles with pictures get a lot more traction, so don’t forget to add new photos regularly and update your profile info. Log in to your account as often as you can, use the instant messenger extensively and try to contact as many singles as possible. Rule number one: stay honest, optimistic and tolerant in all your online dating activities.