Do You Envy Dating Firemen?

When you begin searching for someone to date you may have a certain checklist in your head. Like, must have a good job, be a certain height, tall, intelligent, funny, and many other characteristic aspects that would make up your perfect companion.

And when you land your partner and the first thing he tells you is that he’s a firefighter, you may think that you've hit the jackpot. A man that puts his life on the line to help save others, is your temperature rising yet?

But, with any other thing in life there is always an upside and a downside to something. And dating a firefighter is no different, it comes with its own set of fires to put out!

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Life of a Firefighter

The life of a firefighter is unpredictable and can change at the drop of a hat. They either work 24-hour shifts with a 48-hour window of off time or they work numerous 10 or 12-hour shifts with a day off here or there.

During their shifts where they are on call, they will eat, sleep, and showed at the fire station. And when they aren't at the fire station they have their pagers and bag ready in case they are called to the fire station.

Being a firefighter is about responding in literal seconds because you need to get there in time to save a life. It's a job that gives you a daily rush of adrenaline, but at the same time is the most satisfying job you could do!

What to Expect When Dating One

Before dating a fireman, it is important that you understand there are four different types of firemen. The first is the fireman that went to school to learn the ins and outs of firefighting in order to make this job a full time career.

On the other hand, there are the men that are volunteer firefighters and work on an as-needed basis at the firehouse. The next type of firefighter is the wildland and hotshot firefighters, these men are the ones they call when forest fires begin to engulf forests threatening the lives of people and homes nearby.

When you choose to date a fireman you should expect them to spend a lot of time at the station. And being that you never know when the next call will come in means difficulty planning special date nights or trips.

One should also expect to spend a lot of their off days attending funerals or checking on people that are in the hospital. If you're not doing that you may find yourself at home as your man catches up on some sleep.

When dating a firefighter you have to be flexible because of the unpredictability of their lives. And you must also understand that if it comes to you and the fire station then the station and the other firefighters will almost always come first!

Locating Your Firefighter

Since the dating game has changed so drastically in the last few years the best and easiest way to find yourself a firefighter is to go onto a dating website like Of course you will have to weed through the cheesy biography pickup lines and creeps, but we are sure there are a couple of firefighters posing in uniform just for you.

There are multiple sites that are dedicated to finding fire fighting men and other men in uniform. Just make sure that you come with your A-game because these men are sure to have heard it all. Or you could always do it the old fashion way and go straight to the fire station.

Some women catch their perfect firefighter at the bar after hours with the rest of their buddies. This is totally surprising due to their strange working hours, either way, take advantage of the opportunity and be bold!

Why Date a Firefighter

If you've managed to get past the unpredictability of a firefighters schedule then you're doing well so far. There are so many wonderful reasons that you should consider dating a fireman.

The firefighters are usually amazing cooks. Part of the reason they are such good cooks is that they are always cooking for themselves and the other guys at work so of course, they will be ready to show off their skills in the kitchen.

Another reason to date a firefighter is that they come with a built in family. Firemen put their lives on the line every day and unfortunately that means at times losing their lives for the job.

When you date a firefighter you can rest assured you will never spend another birthday or holiday alone, we'll that is if they aren't working. The men and their families become your family too.

The strong bonds the men create with each other are bonds that will last a lifetime!

Firefighter Dating Fun

The fun thing about dating a firefighter is that they are adventurous and ready to try most things that others aren't willing to try at all. Which you should've known because they run into burning buildings as a career and do so quite regularly.

Dating a firefighter means spontaneity and flying by the seat of your pants. Hopefully, you aren't scared of a little adventure in your life because if you are dating a fireman may not be the best idea for you.

Cons to Catching a Firefighter

As I mentioned earlier when it is good there is also some downside when it comes to dating a firefighter. Like in the event that a natural disaster occurs, you’re probably going to be left on your own because they will be called in to help other people.

Another downside is that fatalities and other injuries occur more often than you would think to firefighters. Meaning there is always another firefighting family somewhere that will be in need of your support during such a tough and emotional time.

Because of their hectic schedules, you can guess that they may miss quite a few important holidays and other personal events. And even if he is off of the clock the moment the side sounds he will probably get up and head over to the station.

Another downside is the stress that the job comes with. They will be stressed to do their job properly as it can mean the difference between saving a life and losing theirs. And you will become stressed out wondering if you will be getting a call that tonight was that night.

The Fire is Out

Dating a firefighter can be both recording and difficult. It’s definitely not for the faint of heart. If you can get past the rigorous schedule that they live by then it is absolutely worth every single second!

Get ready to put the fire out because you may have quite a few of them when dating a fireman. There may be some fires that you never want to extinguish!

Author: Jennifer Lorusso
Jennifer Lorusso is a recognized dating and interpersonal relationship expert. As a woman with Psychological degree, she utilizes both her whole life training and her incredible life experiences to serve her readers. She is known for her approachable manner and empathetic abilities. She trully believes that everyone can find true love as long as they believe it is available to them.
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