The saying men are from Mars and women are from Venus has been around for centuries. And that is because it is true. Men and women are very different so trying to understand each other can cause issues. One thing is for sure, you will no longer have to question yourself if a guy you are seeing is looking for just a hookup or wants a serious relationship.
This article gives you the signs and tips to find out if he is serious about dating or just wants something casual. While it may not apply to every man, it is a good guide to have in consideration every date you go on.
There are several ways to tell if a guy is serious. Let’s have a look at them.
If you man is showing one, two or all of these signs, then he is serious about dating you, so don’t be shy to go ahead.
If he shows none of the signs mentioned above, chances are he is just looking to hookup. However, other signs will be present for you to look out for.
The answer to this question depends on how long you have been seeing/dating the guy. For example, if it is your first date and he asks to spend the night, chances are he just wants to stay to have sex. On the other hand, if you have met up several times and maybe even had sex, then chances are he enjoys your company and wants to spend more time with you.
It could be that he is being nice and is saying what he thinks you want to here, with or without the incentive of more sex. If you are able to spend a night together without having sex, then that is a good sign. The best way to decide is to trust your gut. If staying the night feels right, then don’t be afraid to invite him to stay the night. If it doesn’t feel right, then there is no shame in backing out.
There are many signs that a boy is interested in you for a relationship or just a hookup. While each person is different, if the guy you are seeing shows one or more signs, either positive or negative, there is a high chance you can guess his intentions. However, the best way to approach the situation is to trust your gut or talk to him. If you feel something isn’t right, try talking to him about his intentions and feelings to better gauge where your relationship is going.